Alright, the gifts are purchased, wrapped, presented, and unwrapped. The last people have left the last shindig, and the kids are finally asleep in bed. Phew! I know your first instinct is to turn into a TV or computer zombie and let the peace of the END of the Holidays wash over you before the New Year celebrations kick in – but I think that there is one more little ‘party’ you need to attend. The “just me and my spouse” party.
Throughout the Holiday Season, there are many obligations for time and energy that take away from time with your spouse. Now that those obligations are over and done with, you should re-acquaint yourselves again. Get a bottle of wine or make some hot chocolate, start a fire, and enjoy the time that you finally get to have with your spouse. I’m sure she’ll let you know how much she appreciates you for doing it.
About the Author: Abby Dryer's goal in life is to bridge the communication gap between men and women. She finds herself giving lots of marital advice to her guy friends whose wives don’t want to have to explain *everything* to their husbands. “Women are hard to understand. I’m a woman, and *I* don’t even get us sometimes! Goodhusbanding is a great guide to help men understand their women, and hopefully communicate with a little more confidence, because that’s what works… communication!”